Camp is supposed to be fun, not tortuous. If your daughter is really suffering, it's not her fault at all. She is suffering a form of separation anxiety which is genetic in nature. If you let her come home, you can do so while conveying acceptance, understanding and hope. You could say, for instance, "it's O.K. You've managed to stay for two weeks even though it was very hard. Some time in the future, you'll find it easier. If not next year, then another year - people eventually recover from homesickness." You could also give her the choice to try to stay while adding a little naturopathic support. I suggest sending her some Bach Flower Remedies. You might try both "Rescue Remedy" and "Mimulus." Tell her to put 16 drops of each in a large water bottle and have a drink from that bottle at four different points in the day - morning, noon, afternoon and evening. She should finish all the water and fill it up fresh each day. The Remedies can help her deal with her separation anxiety much more successfully. She might then be able to stay the last days at camp. However, do give her the choice and don't be judgmental. Homesickness can be very painful. She needs your understanding and gentle support.    Sarah Chana

My mother made me stay at camp when I was homesick and I never forgave her for that. Even now, twenty years later, I am upset that she just didn't get it and didn't have any mercy on me. I would never do that to my child.

I was homesick but my parents made me stick it out and I'm glad they did. I ended up having a terrific summer which I will always fondly remember. I think you have to look at each case individually. This girl may be in worse shape than I was. It's a fine line. Some kids could be pushed too far but some need a little nudge. I guess you have to know your own child.

What is the Camp doing about it ?????