my daughter is 12, she is 4'6 and weighs 60 lbs. i can not find any pants that fit her. If they fit in the waist thin there to short. if we find a pair that fits she doesnt like them, or we will get them home and two weeks will go by and i will notice she hasnt worn them when i ask her why, and forcing it out of her she replies she doesnt like them. so my money is wasted... if i force her to wear some she doesnt like she refuses to go to school and i have to drag her to car and force her to go. when i do that she tells me she hates me.i dont know what to do?  (and yes i have tried the adjustable waist she wont wear them. i have literally gone to every flippin store that sales any kids clothing and i mean every store.i cant go shopping with her anymore its gotten that bad, my blood pressure is extremely high when we get home. any suggestions?