I want my boys to grow up to be great husbands. I don't think my mother-in-law did such a great job with my own husband - I had to teach him a lot. I want my daughters-in-law to have an easier time. But my sons still see that my husband is self-centered, expects things to be done for him, doesn't always remember to clean up after himself and so on. Believe me he's come a long way, but there are still plenty of issues. If my boys are watching all this, is there any way I can help them do better without putting down their Dad?