My husband is unusually nurturing - not to me but to our baby. Our daughter is 2 now but ever since she was born, he has chosen to be highly involved. At first I appreciated the help, but now it feels like he's the mother and I'm a nobody. I know my daughter prefers him to me at this point. He bathes her, feeds her, puts her to bed. When she wakes in the night she calls for him. When I tell him how I feel, he tells me I'm being ridiculous, that our daughter loves us both equally and that it's important for fathers to be involved. I don't like what's happening but maybe he is right and I am being over sensitive. Any advice?