What do I do about meddling in-laws?  I would like my husband and I to raise our children.  They are from a by-gone era and while there is value in what they say.... Their interference is becoming unmanageable.  It has come to the point where they will pick up my kids from school and take them to classes that they registered them in without talking to us first... when asked. They simply thought it would be a good idea for them to take an after school art class and since they are paying and the kids are benefitting, they didn't think we would mind.  When I asked them not to do that they simple dismiss it as being ungrateful. As they are my husband's parents... he doesn't want to cause them any unhappiness is their "declining" years but at this rate it is my sanity that is declining.