My 29 year old son has ADD. He has trouble holding down a job. He can't focus on things for a long period of time. BUt he looks completely normal. People don't understand how difficult it is for me to deal with him. He mismanages money terribly and I am always bailing him out and I'm not prepared to see him face all the consequences of his mistakes because he would be in jail or on the street if I did that. I'm prepared to take care of it all I just wish people could understand and support me better. I get a lot of criticism even from my husband and other kids.