i also worry about this.  my wife already is in love with baby #2 but  i think that is because she's been carrying it around for 8 months now.  i think that our first child is perfect.  i can't imagine that we'll get that lucky twice.  plus i know a lot of people who had second children that were more difficult and less cute than their firsts.  i worry that will happen to us.

It’s really common for moms to wonder about the birth of their second child can they possibly  love this child as much as they love the first its almost universal I think, so allow yourself to wonder about that when you hold your new born baby in your arms all your wonders is gonna go down the drain and you will love that one just as you loved your Tyler  just as  you loved your first born and as your family grows you will find that there is more in love that grows along with in your heart it just expands that way but for now you can wonder an wait.