All I can say is search out good books on adolescent sexuality and sex education. Be careful to make sure the books are not religious dogma disguised as "education" as in the case of abstinence "education" or abstinence "plus education". I am not sure how to find it, but it would be great if someone made the Swedish sex education curriculum and materials available in English translation. This would be a much needed great benefit to parents and educators in the US where our education system with regards to sex education has been harmed by political and religious interference.