Hi...so we need some advice.  We have a 14 yo daughter, beautiful, smart, talented, great kid in most ways.  By keeping our ears open, and monitoring her text messages (which we tell her over and over we will do), we are aware she considers herself bisexual.  We have not confronted her, as we want to give her time to bring it to us when she feels comfortable.  But now, she wants to have a friend sleepover, and we know this is her little sweetheart, and they have already talked about how cool having a irl friend rather than a boy friend is cause mom and dad will let you sleep together.  We can't address the sleepover without forcing the issue on the bisexuality -- what should we do?  Any advice greatly appreciated, thanx.