My boyfriend & I have been dating for over a year. He has 2 children, ages 5 & 2 that he has every other weekend. (I have 3 children full-time ages 18-11). My problem is, that when my boyfriend has his kids for the weekend, he lets them stay up until midnight/1am (with naps from 6p-8p) I try to tell him that its not good for the kids to go to bed that late (they have "normal" bedtimes & naps with their mother), but he thinks its not a big deal because he wants them to sleep in until 10am when they\'re with him! I am a nurse & work long hours & have to wake up early. Its creating a problem for me coming home exhausted after a 12hr shift @ 11pm and his kids are still wide awake bouncing off the walls! I don't know what to do or how else to approach this with him. He says I'm being selfish & don't like his kids but that's not it! What can I do?