Unless you have an unusual lifestyle, you just can't play with your toddler all day! It wouldn't be advisable even if you did somehow have the time. Your child doesn't like to play alone and this is an inborn trait - some kids do and some kids don't. Kids with ADHD often suffer from intense boredom - which is not to say that your child has this, but simply highlights that the trait is linked to a gene. Whatever the cause, if you are not going to get down on the floor with your daughter, she'll eventually get bored enough to learn to do something on her own (although this may never be her "natural" preference). Making play dates can help to a certain extent, but once the friend leaves, your child will be bored again. The best thing to do is acknowledge her feeling ("I know you're bored/I know it's frustrating") and then go on to "I'm sorry I can't play with you right now. I know it's hard." and then just do what you need to do. You can also try taking your daughter to a naturopath or homeopath - they can sometimes help with this sort of trait.  Sarah Chana