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| This is a hard one! Little babies with little tummies can get gas and
general stomach distress that makes them irritable, uncomfortable and
inconsolable. It’s hard on them and equally (more?) hard on parents.
Sometimes, the problem has to do with an immature digestive system,
but sometimes it is an aggravation caused by intolerance to something
in the baby’s diet or mother’s diet (if nursing). Changing formulas or
experimenting with your own dietary changes may make a difference. Ask
you doctor for guidance, at least in order to rule out this possible
cause of fussiness. Sometimes extra burping or giving smaller feeds
will help reduce gas and bloating, so you can try that as well.
Some babies are fussy because of allergies to the fabrics they are
wearing or lying on. You could experiment with this as well to see if
any change makes any difference. A consultation with a naturopath can
be helpful because sometimes they can offer safe treatments that reduce
gastric upset. They may also have potions to calm the upset child (and
you!). Homeopathy, for example, offers many solutions for colicky
babies.
Try to reduce noise and chaos around the baby, if only to reduce
the stress on his system. Sometimes, specialty relaxation music can be
purchased to help the baby’s body entrain to a healthful, relaxed
rhythm. “Chakra Suite” by Steven Halpern is one such piece of music
that works with humans and pets as well!
However, if there is no effect of such environmental changes, then
you have a baby who is crying and won’t be soothed. Some parents find
that their babies will remain calmer when carried in a back pack. The
advantage of a back pack over arms, is that the baby is out of your way
and you can carry on with cooking, cleaning and other tasks. You might
even be able to go shopping with the baby settled comfortably on your
back. Baby back packs are usually used for slightly larger babies who
can hold their heads up by themselves, but some parents have been able
to successfully and safely modify a back carrier to snuggle around the
baby’s head and support the baby upright even for the very little ones
like yours. Front packs can also be used, of course, but it is much
harder to accomplish anything when the baby is sitting right on your
chest.
Many people cannot use a back pack or don’t want to, however. It
may still be possible to comfort your baby by old-fashioned
“swaddling.” There are books that describe how to swaddle a baby and
the safety and warmth of swaddling can be soothing to a baby with
stomach pain. Alternatively, placing a warm “hot water bottle” on the
baby’s tummy while the baby is in his or her crib, can be calming as
well (be sure the hot water bottle isn’t actually hot!).
Some babies will calm down when they experience a blast of fresh
air. Can you take the infant out in the stroller after lunch? Sometimes
the car seat can have the same effect, or even the stroller will work.
It takes much experimentation to see what will work best for your
baby. By the time you figure it out, the baby will probably have
matured out of this crying phase! Meanwhile, you must try your best, if
only to calm YOUR nerves! It is so hard to deal with a distressed
infant. Parents can feel helpless, overwhelmed and even desperate in
the face of constant crying. Know that you are in the good company of
millions of parents who have had to see their children through this
behavior. All of these children stopped crying eventually and yours
will to. Your calm attitude will help both you and your child.
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