I divorced 10 years ago when my son was only 3. I remarried 2 years ago. My new relationship is challenged severely because my wife just can't seem to get along with my son, now 13. I admit he can be difficult, but he's been through a hard time in his life and I think she needs to be patient. When we were dating, she promised she'd love my son like a mother. Now that we're a family, she is very critical of him, always complaining about little things like he makes a mess or doesn't say good-bye and so on. She is pushing him away and then wonders why he isn't friendly toward her. We;re fighting all the time about this. Is there something I can do about this?