My daughter goes to a play group. She became friendly with a little girl there - they are both 3 yrs old. The little girl's Mom invited my daughter to come play at their house and I agreed. They were supposed to play for 90 minutes so I went shopping. Meanwhile, the playdate didn't go so well - the girls were fighting over toys. The mom tried to call me on my cell phone but I was in a noisy mall and I never heard it ring. Nonetheless, the mom told my daughter she had to go home. She called my nanny to come get her. My nanny walked a half hour to pick her up and then had to walk a half hour back to our house. When I showed up to pick my daughter up the mother told me she sent her home. I was absolutely enraged! Why couldn't she have showed the girls had to work things out - they are only 3! What right did she have to call my nanny and make her walk an hour? How could she make my 3 year old take such a long walk home? But I was afraid to say what I really felt because this lady is very connected to other moms and I thought she would badmouth me and my child - so I just said "thanks" and left. But I can't get over my upset. I'm so mad I could explode. Do you think I should risk my daughter's social life to tell her how I really feel?