Is it better for my kids to live with their two parents in the home when there is a lot of conflict or better for them to go through divorce and have the parents live more peacefully in separate homes? I need to know because I'm worried that my kids will be harmed by my husband's temper. He is a rageaholic. Everything makes him blow up - he has no ability to manage frustration. I've asked him to get professional help but he says I'm the one who's angry -not him! I totally disagree. I never shout or slam doors like he does. The only thing I'm angry about is the fact that he won't do anything about his rages. I'm thinking of leaving him, but I don't want to harm my kids (ages 3 and 5). What do you think?