While looking for a video in the local Blockbuster, a pre-teen girl came in... couldn't be more than 13 years old.   Skirt too short, top too low, made-up like a hooker looking for a "date", wearing CFM stilletto pumps in red.  She had an ear ful of cell phone and language like a drunken sailor.  Just as I was ready to ask her if her mother knew where she was..... in comes none other than "The MOTHER".   Skirt too short, top too low, made up and also wearing stillettos.   Could have been bobsey twins if not for the obvious age difference....   How do expect our daughters to repsect themselves when they have these role models? What do I say to my own 12 year old when she think that the other MOM is cool?